Hi! So this is a little embarrassing, but I’ve never came in my life, so I think? 21 female.
To start this off I have spinal issues and scar tissue on my clit and inside my vagina, so they are a little desensitized.
Now I’ve tried a world of things for literal hours (atleast 2-3 hours per activity listed, even combining some), clit rubbing/pinches, fingerings, dildos, vibrators (literally just end up numb no matter the setting, the lovense thruster or something? Fingerings motion and vibe wearable), magic wand vibe, plenty of lube, condoms on dildos (that helped?), Nipple play, nipple clamps, anal. I’ve tried so much solo.
None of it gets me there, I just feel the tension rise, and it never goes down, if anything I end up more irritated and tense, which really sucks.
So I guess I’m asking for help? Any suggestions? Obviously stuff for solo only, but I’ve ran out of ideas and feel I may just live an orgasm-less life.
Sorry for poor formatting I’m on mobile and still barely know how to format or do much