So me and my boyfriend only very recently got together (about a week ago) after we had been talking for a month. in the time we where talking he told me he had gotten out of a 2 year relationship 3 months earlier, he also told me that even though they’d been dating for 2 years they’d been close friends for 7 years beforehand. this was fine with me and i just assumed that they’d always respect eachother and sort of be there if one needed the other but that’s about it. however i’ve noticed that she snaps him everyday, sends him tiktoks, facetimes him as he’s leaving my house and ends up being mentioned casually in conversations pretty often. this is starting to get to me as i’m beginning to feel like a rebound and that i could never replace what they had. he assured me that they’re just friends and because they’ve known eachother for so long he can’t just stop being friends with her which i think is fair enough. however he also told me before we began dating that he didn’t want to ask me to be his girlfriend because ”he couldn’t do that to her” which kinda crushed me inside a little. so anyway my dilemma is that as we’ve only been dating a week i don’t feel like i can complain about his 9 year relationship with someone else. i’m not sure how to bring up that their closeness makes me uncomfortable without sounding insecure or controlling. how do i go about this and do i even have a right to complain?