I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months, we haven’t made it official yet.
I like making my partner feel good, and while he seems to really enjoy our intimacy, he hardly ever finishes. He says this is the most he’s ever finished with someone ever but more often than not, he doesn’t. He says he’s always had this issue with everyone and often even by himself. We’ve tried all kinds of toys and are kinky; we’ve also had lots of vanilla intimacy.
I really want him to finish more often, and would love it if he finished inside me, but at this point I’d just like to help him cross the finish line. We’re both frustrated.
I’m not sure what do to do help him cross the finish line more often. He doesn’t have a problem maintaining an erection or getting hard, just finishing. I don’t want to put pressure on him to finish, because I know at least for me when I’m feeling pressured to finish it makes it near impossible for me to.
We both want kids eventually and I forsee it being a logistics issue at this point.
Idk how to work on this with him. We’ve talked about it but he doesn’t seem to know what to do either. He seems like the anxious type and I thought maybe that it was just nerves at first.
Advice on how to talk to him about my concerns, or how to get help/what to do for this issue.