I had been in a long distance relationship for 3 years, she ” 40f” I’m ” 50m” we both are fit and told we look younger than our age, during our long distance stage we would visit each other and our talks were alot about sex, even when we visited the sex was pretty amazing from day one, each visit was an adventure, she has two well behaved teens that like me, moving on, since I freelance where she lives is alot more affordable than my state where we were going to stay, so I sacrificed and we got a place in her state, she even flew to me to help me pack, her mom and dad and siblings all like me, perfect, she works from home ex except for one day a week, now once I got settled all the sex, intimacy , went down the drain, barely any touching, hugging nothing, I was like what happened? it caused a lot of arguments as I felt duped, so I threatened to go back to my state, which she did not seem to take seriously, she would try to control the arguments which were at first conversations, she hated taking accountability, she became boring, didn’t really want to go out. weird as all get out, I stopped complaining, stopped my bids for affection, than one night she says sorry.. the next three days we were like it used to be before I moved, not sure what changed, I doubt she has had an affair she’s home more than anyone I know except that one day a week. when I say she likes freaky sex I mean it, she doesn’t like the romance she loves when I’m rough, she said listening to certain music lately got her in the mood but I don’t buy it. i don’t know if the living together was a power struggle, if I was being tested, the more I chased she pulled away, or… if she is breadcrumbing, any similar situations