I (28F) Met this guy(31M) about 7 months ago and then things were really good going well for me.My career was booming ( I was a lead project manger for one of the top firms in the world). I was getting paid good money and I had my sh*t together. Work became extremely toxic I began working 7 days a week with an extremely toxic manager. I started getting into a very bad state mentally and “changed” he was supportive throughout the process until the time when I lost my job. Right now I am currently unemployed living on uber eats and side jobs and savings while I job hunt but its really driving me crazy that I am not in control of my life as I was. The issue is I now feel like I don’t have anything to bring to the table anymore and I now look like I don’t have any goals for myself. I do though but I am extremely disturbed about my previous manager and I lost all my confidence. Its affecting my relationship now cause I feel so useless and I feel like I am unattractive and am a burden to him. He once mentioned that he wanted a financially stable woman and I am far from that now. I guess I am just ranting cause I know how this is gonna end anyways. He is going on his next hunt for a better and stable match. He is well established himself so I know he is well within his rights to demand/ask for that but it sucks that I know it aint gonna work out with him🥹He would see me crying about work everyday because it got very bad and I lost wait and started going for therapy. He would also see some texts that my manager sent me etc. He knew everything
In addition – reason I lost my job was I had a manager that genuinely did not like me. She became extremely toxic and promoted me into a position that already set me up for failure ( no training, no shadowing or resources) of course it went bad because I genuinely couldn’t keep up no-matter how long I worked.and I was on probation for performance reasons I was put on PIP so I knew it was an end and I decided to quit before it tarnished my career reputation ( that was probably stupid I know). Its life, it happens