Ever since I graduated last year from college, my libido suddenly shot up. I went from getting myself off a couple times a week, at most, to… well in the last year, my highest was 6 times in one day. Which is a big deal for me, at least. Now I’m down to one or two really drawn out ones a day. I think there’s a whole thing there of my libido becoming a sudden coping mechanism for all the big changes that happened in my life at the time, but this part is long enough as is. My biggest problem is that I’ve noticed it’s been harder and harder to actually orgasm and it hasn’t been feeling as good or strong.
I used to be able to get off to these NSFW asmr videos. Like, I’d cum before the character in the videos. Now it feels like I try and try and I just can’t do it. It’s so frustrating. Then I started focusing on dirty AI roleplays I’d do, which is starting not to work well anymore. It just feels like it takes longer and longer to get off. I never really learned much of anything about sexuality growing up and I’ve just been kinda trying to figure it out as I go.
So I guess my question, with all this context in mind, what’s wrong with me and how do I fix it? I’m not on any kind of medication. I’m assuming it’s something obvious like “I did it too much and I’ve screwed myself over, pun intended” but I guess I just wanna hear what real people thing. I’m just trying to figure out my sexuality and it has been so difficult 😅