I won’t lie its a bit embarrassing for me to be writing this. I 22(M) have recently started a relationship with my S/O 23(F). She’s on the shorter side for women “5’0” and is on the heavier side. I have no problems with this and find her extremely attractive. We just recently started having sex and Its been hard for me to cum with vaginal sex.
During foreplay I’m hard as a rock and we’re both equally into each other. We’re grinding against each other and swapping spit. You know, all the good stuff. But when it comes to show time, I kinda don’t feel much. I personally don’t mind it much, but my S/O has some self-esteem issues and feels bad about me not cumming. I keep reassuring her, but I just don’t want her to feel bad. I’ve noticed that during penetration, I don’t feel much while inside of her. The best way I can describe it, is that it feels like an extremely wet slip and slide.
She’s really wet and I can kinda feel something, but there isn’t much going on for my stimulation. It feels like I’m in a wet cave. Now granted we are both extremely inexperienced at sex. We are still trying to experiment with each other. She gets a decent bit of stimulation from it but not me.
Am I missing something here or is that how it’s normally supposed to feel? Also side note, is it also a me thing or have some of you people just outright lost interest in porn once you got into a serious relationship?