As in, do you suck the full length of the guy’s dick?
I have always gone as far as I can (maybe 4 inches?) and then use my hand at the base for anything I can’t comfortably get my mouth to. No one has ever complained
However, the last three guys I’ve dated have moved my hand to push their whole dick in my mouth so their head hits the back of my throat. That is very uncomfortable to me so I tell them to stop and they do.
The first time it happened I assumed it was just that guy’s thing but now I’m wondering if taking the guys entire dick in your mouth is standard for blow jobs?? The guys I’ve been with are a normal size (6-7 inches?) but I can’t handle the whole thing and am wondering if I’m unusual.. appreciate any insight thanks