So this is a follow up from my last post. We talked and everything. He said he wanted to slow it down and basically not know where we are at. I don’t even know what to refer him as at this point. I’m so confused about the status of this relationship as well. Anyways, he gave me 2 conditions for us to be considered officially together again, which felt weird, but I will not detail them. One I felt I could accomplish, while the other requires more of his effort. It feels like my gut is telling me that even though I might be able to do the one…the other will never happen. It’s mostly because this has happened to me before with other guys I’ve tried to date; I put in the effort and…not much on their part. Then last night, we were talking about what to do the next time we see each other and I suggest some things and suggested maybe a date. He said he didnt care which one we would do, but said we hadn’t really discussed the way forward. I pointed out the 2 conditions and he said yeah, but he didn’t want to push an official relationship and just let it happen naturally. He also said he just wanted to enjoy our time together and each other, both sexual and non sexual. Then promptly went to sleep. I’m left so confused and not sure if I’m overthinking it, but feel hurt.