(24M) (24F) So I’ve been going through so many emotions these past couple weeks and I need genuine advice on what to do. So I started talking to this girl 3 months ago and it started as friends but it grew into something more. The problem is that she was already in a relationship. We had a small falling out a couple months ago and we recovered from it and as a result we only grew closer together. She told me that she realized that the guy she is with is not her person and she can’t live the life she dreams of as long as she’s with him. She decided she wanted to be with me. The next couple months were me helping her figure things out and help her prepare to leave her boyfriend. I feel like this makes me a shitty person but my heart wants her so bad. She told me everything I’ve always wanted to hear and she always told me how she loved me and is going to be with me and we started to make a list of things we were going to do together. 2 weeks ago she broke up with her bf and she didnt even tell me until I pryed her for an answer and two days later after suddenly dissapearing, she finally told me. She said he begged for another chance and she doesnt know what to do. She said she was heartbroken and needed time and space so I gave her that. It’s been 2 weeks and I finally heard from her and nothing has changed. She’s still unsure of what to do with him and she refuses to talk about it. She gets mad at me and just ignores me and my emotions when I ask her to just talk to me. I can’t just drop everything that we’ve worked towards for 3 months and throw away all the promises we made to one another. I really need help…

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