I (22f) wish I weren’t so awkward in social situations. I believe a big part of my social awkwardness comes from my lack of confidence because of my looks. I’m not an attractive girl, chubby, acne, glasses, crooked teeth with braces. The worst part is my confidence with guys, I don’t know how to maintain eye contact, not stumble over my words, smile without showing my teeth, turning red, etc. Often times I’m too scared I will come across as too friendly and they will think I’m flirting.
Aside from the impact on my dating life, I have trouble communicating with regular people. I don’t always know what to say, and I’m afraid to speak up. Sometimes I wish I were a super outgoing person but I’m really shy. I appreciate all tips because I really need it haha
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I recommend to you a book that transformed my mental state on absolutely everything. As a warning, it’s extremely profane, hilarious, and it will reveal to you the reasons people at large think the way they do.
It’s called “The subtle art of NOT giving a fuck” by Mark Manson. There is also a 30 minute YouTube summary by mark, if you want to check out what it’s about before committing to buying/reading it. I strongly recommend for all young adults. Go into it open minded, and assume you know nothing.
Have you considered taking medication for anxiety?