I (F38) married to (M33) and tonight after sex in the shower I asked him if he like it and he replied “why are you asking that? You didn’t do nothing you’re like a dead body a sac of potatoes” I was confused because he’s never said anything like that to me and he always says we have bomb sex. We have sex 3-4 times a wk because we have kids and been together 7 years married 3 next month. We do have oral and try new things and I do moan, I’m effectionate and I talk to him sometimes we laugh too.