My husband of 5 years has been sneaking out of the house at night on the weekends and going to his friends house to drink all night long. I see him on the camera and I’m out of town visiting family on the weekends with our daughter. I ask him in the morning how he slept and he lies and says he sleeps great at home. Meanwhile I have him recorded leaving. I’ve never prohibited him to go to his friends and spend long hours away from home. I’ve encouraged it because he works a lot and I know he needs his time too. When I confronted him about it he becomes very angry and says fine I won’t ever go visit my friends and be miserable at home all the time. I told him I don’t wish that for him and I’m quite alright with him being out all night, he just has to communicate. Going out to drink and I’ll probably stay there so I’m not drinking and driving. This is so I know where he is and not staying up all night worried because he’s lying to me. I’m currently staying with my family house away because I don’t have a car and it’s being fixed. He’s playing the victim and not reading my texts, texting me or calling me. Straight silent treatment. I don’t know what to think but I’m feeling really crappy because I’m happy for him to see his friends several times a week and never gave him a problem. He said he’s lying because I don’t let him see his friends. That’s 100% not true. Could he be hiding something? What would be other reasons for him to hide going to his friends when im perfectly fine with it