For some context I (23M) have known this girl (24F) for a long time we are friends but that’s it. I almost asked her out once (and is the only girl I have ever gotten close to asking out) about 6 years ago but I moved to go to college and was worried about trying to make long distance work talked myself out of it, and also on a scale of 1-10 she is an 11 in my eyes and I am a 3 at best so I knew she could probably do better than me. She found someone and got married and I tried moving on but never really could. I’m out of college now and have moved back close to where we both lived and she has gotten a divorce about a year ago. We went on I guess what you could call a date about 6 months ago, we just drove around for hours talking and catching up. It was probably the most fun I have had in a long time and we really seemed to enjoy each others company. During this, however, she said that she would probably never want to date someone again. I didn’t act like this upset me but it does hurt but I don’t know if this is just the breakup talking and maybe she’ll come around sometime and be open to it even though she might not like me that way. I don’t know if I should try holding out and asking her sometime in the future or try to move on this time even though I don’t think I can ever. I am sorry that this is so long been bottling this up for a long time and maybe I am a creep for thinking about her and wanting to try and get together after all this time. I appreciate the help of you have any will be appreciated at this point.

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