I 21M met this girl 21F right at the end of the school year and I think we really hit it off. I really enjoy texting her and facetiming her and we share lots of similar interests and hold the same values. I really like talking to her and I think she’s really funny on top of being absolutely beautiful. The problem is that she is back home for the summer (which is 4hrs away from me) and we’ve only been able to text, facetime, and play games online together.
I know that the best way to make a girl disinterested is to keep things online and never meet up in person so I asked her to hang out in a month when she came back for a week. Things are going well and I think that we share the same feelings about each other as well which is great. We’re always very flirty with each other and we’ve both shown clear intentions of possibly wanting to be more than friends one day. The thing is that one day when we were texting she brings up the idea of me driving over and meeting up with her to hang out. I got excited at the idea of seeing her so I said yes, and asked her if she’d be willing to meet me at a city nearby to her (which was an hour away from her) as a sort of “meet halfway” (even though I’d still be driving 3 hours.) And she said she would love to, even calling off of work that day to hang out with me.
I think she also really likes me back and I’m looking forward to seeing her but I just can’t help but think that I might have done the wrong thing. In the moment I wasn’t thinking about this but we’ve really only known each other for a little over 2 weeks. And this act of driving so far to see her might reek of desperation. I just feel like I should have just waited for our meet up in a month instead of trying to hang out as soon as possible like I did here. Not to mention that we’d be hanging out from 2-8pm which is a lot of time and maybe too much.
I just really like this girl and I feel like she’s really special so I don’t want to miss out on the chance to connect with her since text and facetime only interactions might get boring.
Edit: Title was badly worded, I already made the plans but I’m unsure if I should have. Is my situation with this girl ruined?