Hello guys,
I’ve recently asked about a colleague that I grew really close with. She‘s a little social butterfly, connecting to her was really easy.
The contact grew closer by the day, she‘s extremely affectionate and I really appreciate this about her. She‘s checking up on me,making sure that I’m doing well and stuff.
However, there’s a problem. I recently started to feel something for her and realized that there‘s some sort of attachment to her that I wasn’t able to categorize at first.
Few weeks later, I correctly suspected that it‘s a crush. Getting a little bit jealous when she‘s having fun with another colleague, checking my phone if she‘s messaged me etc.
This is not good because she got a boyfriend and I realized that her attitude towards me is just her kind character. Feeling a bit like a clown for misinterpreting her „signs“.
Anyways, I came to the conclusion that it‘s better for both of us to gain some distance since it‘s hard for me sometimes and I don’t want her to feel bad for something that she‘s not responsible for, yet I don’t want her to not know why I’m trying to „go away“.. I feel like she deserves an explanation because she really trusts me and was always good to me.
How can I end it without unanswered questions?