Using a throw away account for reasons.
I (36) have been with “Mike” (38) since I was 19 and he was 21, it was love at first sight for me and honestly I like to believe we’ve got an amazing relationship; we communicate, we allow each other to be ourselves and I just love him he’s so sweet.
Mike never had a good family life, he’s completely NC with his parents so my parents always included him, my sister “Daisy” was 2 when Mike met her – she’s 19 now.
Can I be a little insecure around Daisy? For sure; she’s everything I’m not, she was always popular – the cliche cute blonde, whereas I’m the mousy one, not unattractive but I can understand classic beauty is more favourable toward Daisy, but I’ve never been insecure with my husband and sister; he’s always insisted she’s his sister.
Daisy and Mike share similar music interests think Billy idol and Kaiser Chiefs, they’re both sporty and artistic, I share similar interests too but not music wise, I love the fact that they get along…sorry there’s so much backstory I can add but I’m aware word count, my husband has always been much more interested in a friendship with Daisy than she has with him, she honestly avoids him where possible. Daisy has been dating her girlfriend for a year.
I came home from work early last week to hear Mike talking about my sister with his friends, and quite frankly I’m offended on her behalf they weren’t talking about her like a human but rather a piece of meat, my husband ended all these degrading comments with “but OP is the love of my life” like is that meant to make things better?
I’ve not confronted him, I haven’t told Daisy, I’m just clueless here.
Any advice welcomed
(Fake names used)
TLDR; caught husband talking about sister to his friends using some…vulgar language, but then ended it by saying I’m the love of his life. Not sure if I should confront him and how.