I (M26) have an awesome partner and we enjoy having sex together. Im very attracted to her (F26) and love when we have sex. She is always willing to give me head and likewise I enjoy going down on her. Thing is I cant ever seem to finish from a BJ alone. It takes me having to help by masterbating as well to finish. The only time Ive ever finished from a BJ asking was when I got one from a guy years ago (Im Bi) but it was a friend and it was a very heated moment so idk if it was just that I was extra turned on that time.
Im just unsure if its a technique thing and if anyone has any advice for it? Or is this normal, do others find they need to help themselves along to finish when getting a BJ from a partner?