We have a sex list and one of the things he wants to do before we get married is watch a female eat me out. I find women attractive so that wasn’t an issue.
However at first we had discussed a boundary that we would never do anything sexual with people we know.
Our relationship is for us and us only. I don’t like sharing but my SO thinks it’s hot that I find girls attractive and that girls find me attractive.
My female friend said that she’s into me and wants to eat me out etc.
my SO said that he wants to watch.
I honestly don’t feel comfortable getting eaten out by my friend let alone having my fiance watch my friend eat me out who we see occasionally and who I talk to quite frequently.
I don’t want to upset or disappoint him though but I feel like if I do this and I do let him watch then I’d never want to talk to my friend again because I’d feel awkward and hate the fact that my fiance saw her like that and I’d want him to delete her off all social media. But on the other end I was to make my fiance sexually happy but I also want to stick to my boundaries too.
So I guess I’m just asking for advice or what other people’s experiences were with this.
He said she doesn’t have to be naked. He just wants to sit in the room and watch.