It’s been 2 week since i (18M) have been talking with this girl(20F). We’ve been on 2 dates by now, 2 dates which have been quite good! Not only we have a LOT! in common but we both have shown interest for each other since the very first moment. Last saturday, during our 2nd date we were making out outside her house just when we were finished, she pulled me into a hug, i hugged her back and asked what she wants us to be, she answered with the same question to what i replied that i want a relationship w her. She didn’t hesitate to accept, however it was I who came up with the “Take things slow” thingie by telling her we should go out on a few more dates. She didn’t get mad at all. That same night she started posting romantic stuff on her close friends stories (Which i honestly found cute/wholesome.) She also sent me a text thanking me for the amazing date, saying she had lots of fun and that she forgot to give me something, but that she’ll give it to me whenever we meet again. Now, yesterday she was expecting me to go visit her (She works at an ice cream stand close to the gym where i go) However i didn’t show up, not because i didn’t want to, but because a friend told me to, quoting him “She’s super interested in you, but you can always make her more interested. Not to mention last thing you want is to make her bored of you.” He was right, later that day she sent me a text asking if everything was okay, asking why i didn’t show up.
Now, i seriously am pursuing a relationship w her, but i don’t wanna rush things as i’m not pursuing a short-term relationship, but a long term one. I know we can be a great couple, again, we have a lot of common interests, and we get along pretty well, plus even though i can’t say she’s the perfect girl, i like her flaws and i’m willing to get pass them. Should i once again ask her for a relationship on our 3rd date? Or is it going to look like i’m tryna play her?