throwaway account so me and my girlfriend together for 7months but are long distance by only an hour apart from eachother. it gets hard to see eachother so most nights we go on call and sleep on call and my girlfriend likes to get touchy with herself over the phone. (im not sure how else to put it aside from just masturbation) she doesnt make me talk her through it but i feel almost inclined to help her through it and dont get me wrong i love helping, but my girlfriend does it almost every night. ive told her she needs a break because shes getting sore but does it again the next night and its been going on for like a month or something. i just dont want to help her all the time because im getting uncomfortable and i just want to be on call with her without it getting freaky all the time. sometimes i just want the company over the phone without it being sexual. ive gotten to the point where i dont want to call at night anymore and shes been getting upset cause we dont call until im about to fall asleep. i know i have to tell her but then she will be self conscious about it and then not want to call. thats not what i want i just want to be able to call without it going sexual everytime and just talk to her.
TL;DR im getting uncomfortable with my girlfriend masturbating all the time on call and i dont know what to do about it.