This might be a little petty or immature but at the same time, i believe it’s fair.
I allowed someone (an old friend who i was very close with but sadly we stopped talking because well to sum it up, she became a raging bitch and i didn’t want her around) to borrow a pretty expensive cowboy hat of mine for an event with the promise she’d give it back. It is now probably a year later and we’ve stopped talking since and it hasn’t been returned even tho i returned all of her things that I had. I have texted her and respectfully asked for my hat back and she ignores me. I feel like my only options left (bc i really liked that hat and it cost me a good bit) are to go to her house with an officer to get it back. I know that seems a bit drastic but she’s not responding to me being nice about it. am i wrong?