Hello ! I recently started dating a new partner and after a few months we began a sexual relationship. My boyfriend (27) , was shamed for finishing and is now unable to finish during any act of sex [ oral ,anal,vaginal]. He told me this before we even started doing anything sexual that he hasnt finished since being shamed years ago. I have tried reassuring him that I will not get angry or upset if he finishes . I keep telling him that I think it’s attractive and a turn on for him to finish.
I know this is a weird psychological thing for him . Any advice would be greatly appreciated