I’m 22M and a virgin, and I don’t really mind being single but the problem is I have a very high sex drive but it’s hard for me to find a fwb especially as a virgin. People say it’s best to lose your vcard to someone you really care about but I’m not gonna look for a girlfriend just for sex. Yet, I really really wanna do the deed because of my libido. Masturbating isn’t doing it for me anymore. It feels like a paradox to me and I’m so confused.
I’ve always craved for physical intimacy though. I really want that feeling of touching skin to skin but I don’t know how I’m gonna go about it if I’m a virgin with a slight level of social anxiety.
My alternative has always been spending time with friends and it usually works but they’re all busy right now, so that’s out of the question. I’m on my own right now.
How do I deal with my high sex drive? What do I do? Please don’t say exercise because it never actually helped me mentally. I need more advice about how to deal with this because I’m so confused and kinda depressed.