I am suddenly single, 67M. I’m trying to figure out how being sexually active works at this age. Looked for forum topics on this subject but found few.
I’m fit and healthy, the mechanics and hydraulics work however the glandular part of sex does not work like it did in my 30’s – orgasm is much more elusive. I have certain standards – no partners more than ten years age difference, strictly safe sex, an intimate friendship might be just as desirable as a sexual relationship. I’m interested in having a few flings, something that seems very normal in your 30’s, but awkward at this age (but not unusual I hear)
There are quite a number of surprisingly attractive single women in my cohort. Many are suddenly single like I am, and looking around. I have also been pleasantly surprised when I realize one of them is flirting with me, although so far that’s never gone anywhere.
What advice might you have for a guy who hasn’t been in this game for 30 years?