24 year old male struggling

So currently I’ve been struggling in the dating department immensely. I got my life together, have my house and I’m in incredible shape. I’ve been going on a lot of dates and the majority of them have ended terribly. I’ve been shamed for not making 200k a year, told I’m below average in every aspect and told by women that I don’t meet the qualifications to be dating. A few tips would help.