So basically being a man it shouldnt bother me but bruh I take a bus everyday to reach certain destination and theres this weird middle age man (45) always tries to give/reserve seats for the teen ppl and is too much friendly with them and today he gave a sit in the bus next to him to me and he asked me abt my shirt,jeans and underwear size .. 💀 and was keeping his hand around my shoulder and all … saying things like you got a nice personality etc.. what’s your weight then like where r you going.. I think hes gay? What should I do I dont want to deal with him everyday . The thing is theres only one bus which takes me to my destination on time and that fellow is in that bus.. suggest me what should I do about this?
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Say loudly “leave me alone, you fucking pedo”
Sometimes a confrontation is called for. Don’t shrink from it.
If you make a big deal about it he will not fuck with you, guaranteed
Thats harrassment! And YES, it should and its normal that it bothers you.
Talk to the police. Guy is a sexual predator.
Don’t brush your teeth in the morning & do it when you get to your destination. But jokes aside, after hearing the recent updates on the Delphi murder of two girls by a pedo, I prefer you arm yourself to be safe.
Video record him on your phone as evidence then confront him in front of the entire bus. He will likely just get off at the next stop and run away. He might need reporting for predatory tendencies towards minors but without evidence, confronting him will lead nowhere other than startling him.
You should file a complaint against him if your aren’t feeling safe. These disgusted people should be put behind the bars and their penis should be chopped off.
Tell the police? Even if you get him to leave you alone, he’ll choose someone else.
Tell him to fuck right off. And tell the bus driver to have him flagged.
First, why shouldn’t it bother you being a man? Emotions are information for action, there’s nothing manly about not having them and being an unfeeling robot.
What I would do is tell this person that their behavior makes me uncomfortable and tell them to stop. If he asks inappropriate questions, don’t answer them. You have ever right to set your boundaries with strangers and ignore people completely. You are not obligated to be nice to this person.
Wear headphones?
LOUDLY tell him “Stop touching me, you’re making me uncomfortable”. Don’t be shy, don’t ever let someone touch you without your consent.
Call the authorities, or tell the bus driver
You could save someone from a very traumatic experience in the future with this person
Do not accept the seat he offers. Look directly into his eyes and say “I don’t like you. Leave me alone.”
Next step, police.
Just stand up and scream “Oi stop rubbing my thigh ya nonce”