I’m a ‘F 20’ in a long-distance relationship with my ‘M 19’ boyfriend. We’ve been together for 7 months, but the past 2 months have been really tough. We argue every day, sometimes more than three times a day, but we always make up on the same day because we love each other so much. My boyfriend told me that I can’t cheer him up when he’s upset because I’m too quiet and my mood depends on his and my apologies aren’t good enough. He also says that I take things too personally. He feels like I often act as if he’s done something wrong, and yesterday he even mentioned that he likes another girl’s personality. He spent 2 hours explaining that he wasn’t trying to be mean or rude, but I still didn’t fully understand how can he say that to me. I know I can be sensitive, but I don’t think I’m always that bad. There are certain words and jokes he makes that I don’t like, and he’s stopped apologizing when he hurts me. he says how can i think like this about him like he wants to hurt my feelings. He thinks he’s always right lately, and says he has to beg me for simple things like staying up until he falls asleep. He even blames me for his panic attacks, saying I say stupid things and have too many complications from my side like I don’t have my phone we don’t vc anymore. and he doesn’t feel comfortable sharing his feelings because i always end up crying and getting upset. I’m really struggling with this. What should I do? If I’m in the wrong, how can I change? I’m bad with words and always seem to make things worse when I try to talk about these issues. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
TLDR: It has been 2 months we have been arguing every day due to some problems on my side and his being impatient ig