Ok starting off I’m F20 and I haven’t felt brave enough to try anything phsycial with anyone yet. Ive been on a couple of dates but thing worked out into a proper relationship so far. Ive noticed a couple of my friends have better luck with guys and had long term relationships and physically involved with them too. I asked them how they did it (find a bf yknow) and they just told me to add random guys on snap and just flirt around with them. Yknow I tried that and I just didn’t feel totally comfortable and ready yet. I don’t know if I’m just not serious enough or if I’m being too picky or if I’m not attractive enough. I’m average looking but I guess I’m a bit bottom heavy around the thighs. I’ve asked my friends if they could guess as to why I wasn’t able to get into relationships and they said something along the lines of me being a bit hard to approach for a guy because of my “tense looks” while I’m out in the library or getting groceries or whatever. I dont understand what is wrong with me tho. I feel like maybe im holding myself back from getting the most out of my youth or whatever but i dont wanna casual hook up with anyone and i want a serious relationship. I see my friends in relationships and wonder if somethings wrong with me. Am I overthinking it?