I am 25 and have been with my boyfriend since i was 19. He is a beautiful and caring person. He does house chores, supports me in everything i want to do, we have a great relationship with each others families and his life revolves around mine.
So why am i feeling like this is not what i want?
He does not have any real friends even tho i try to push him to make connections with other people since it seems like he only wants to spend time with me. He has no real interests(apart playing video games), does not do any physical activity and does not know what he wants to do with his life.
Because of the tension that built up between us im not physically attracted to him anymore and he feels that, i often find him depressed at home. When i ask whats wrong he says that he is sad because he feels like im slipping away and i hate myself for hurting him unintentionally.
This has been going on for the last year and a half. I feel really guilty for having these thoughts about leaving him because he is truly the kindest person ever and does not deserve the heartbreak that this break up would inflict him.
So i wanted to ask you more experienced people from reddit. What do you think? Should i repress these feelings and hope its just a phase because every couple has its ups and downs or do i have to take a step back from my relationship because i feel like i shouldn’t give up on the feeling of passion at barely 25?