I recently moved to start a new job. I’m a pilot and the last job I had, I made what I thought were 3 incredible friends that I thought would be with me for life. We traveled everywhere together as we’re also all pilots. Our positive energy when together in my workplace was something everyone recognized. My last day, they were all incredibly sad, as was I. I moved temporarily back home which is about 6 hours away before starting my next job which has me going to the other side of the country. I tried getting together one last time and meet half way somewhere. One said he couldn’t, the others said they would, then when I suggested places or whatever works best for them, no reply from either. Anytime I’ve talked with either of them over the past few weeks, it’s always been me reaching out, never ask how I’m doing, wishes for best of luck, or anything. I’ve always had their backs all the time, paid for their meals occasionally when we would go out, suggested what to do together, and just felt incredible when we were together. I really expected better. I’m not going to shut them out of my life entirely, but I do feel if they care, they should reach out because I am always the one doing that. Feels like they were just here for a season.