I recently became very sexually active because im in my first commited relationship. I initiated the first time we had vaginal sex, but before that he always initiated oral. Since then we are very comfortable and very turned on by eachother. I dont think ive ever been more attracted to anyone in my entire life, and the actual act of having sex with him is always amazing. He changes things up a lot and says things that both make me feel secure in my consent and turn me on even more. But with all that, even though it feels amazing I never actually orgasim. I come close sometimes but then he cums and I start the aftercare. But this honestly has never really bothered me because it feels so amazing during the process, but I do wonder what he and I could do to make me cum. I always tell him that i finished, and sometimes as he finishes im like right on the brink and the pause from him pulling out kinda just makes me tired. Sometimes he likes to go down on me after if he thinks i didnt finish, but i just get overstimulated. Any ideas?