It’s always something and I always apologize for making her feeling that way just because I’m over the drama. But she never lets it go, she can fight for days. Last night she started an argument because I went for lunch with another friend (they do not know each other). She said that I should’ve asked her and that I did that because I rather would hang out with the other friend.
I feel like nothing I do is right. I told her I’m sorry that I made her feel that way but that was not my intention. That I want to see other friends as well and that I would have asked her but the day before I did and she said she was busy the entire weekend. So I told her that! And she said I should’ve asked her, because she could’ve just said no. But that I didn’t even ask her was rude. And was me intentionally wanting to treat her bad, which was not the case!
I know when writing this that it sounds so childish. But even tho I said sorry she continued the argument and says really mean things that’s a real punch under the belt. Like me standing up for myself is. She said stuff like “maybe you’re behaving like an asshole right now because you’re personal issues” (I have had a rough time emotionally because off a loss).
I’m so tired of this, it’s like walking on eggshells around her. Apologizing doesn’t work, standing up for myself doesn’t work. Idk what to do!
Why does she keep doing this? What should I do?