As a shy woman, I don’t get approached much. I feel like men usually flock to all the outspoken women with very bold personalities. Should I try to change my personality a little to match this? I’m always quiet and polite, but I feel like I give off boring/snobby vibes bc of it. Is being quiet and awkward a turn off for most of you? I’m terrible at socializing and mostly rely on questions and answers to get through talking to people im not familiar with. I can’t just naturally talk about random things and joke around unless I’ve known someone a while. What could a shy woman do to make them more noticeable and interesting?