This happened almost a year ago, and I just cannot get over it. My husband and I were listening to a podcast and the host was saying something like “any guy who was given permission by his partner to have sex with another woman will instantly take it.” And he agreed, then said that it’s been days since we haven’t had sex because I kept on rejecting him, and he would take the chance “just to get off”. I just started taking birth control pills that time and I was just waiting for at least a week before having sex. I was really disappointed and I felt my heart sank. He probably noticed that, because he defended his answer by saying that he was talking about the majority of men and not himself, after he literally just said “he” will. I know he was just saying that so I won’t be disappointed. He also apologized a lot after that.
It’s been months and I still haven’t gotten over it. I hate it whenever I randomly think about it. I know this is unfair for him because it happened months ago, but since then, I can’t look at him the same. I don’t even know what advice I’m looking for, maybe this is just a vent.