We have been dating 5 years now and are pretty serious I love my gf and she loves me. However she has been saying a lot of things lately about feeling unwanted. For one we don’t call on the phone anymore but we do text back n forth all day and we only see each other about 1-2 times a week sometimes it’s every 2 weeks. We live about 15 minutes from each other so not very far and both drive.
She says we need to do more but honestly I am happy with what we currently do. I spend most of my time in bed I usually get to bed around 11 and don’t get out of bed until about 1-2 most days. Then I have to walk my dog and after that I usually go back to bed. We both work part time, I wfh though so I usually work from my bed as well and am in school but we are out now for summer.
While I thought everything was fine she made it pretty clear compared to how we used to talk on the phone everyday and see each other maybe 3 times a week plus she isn’t happy with how things currently are and she feels like
I don’t want to be around her.