So I f(54) husband (56) have been married a while and we had a good sex life a while ago but it’s gone and disappeared. It’s not that I didn’t want sex with him but I always had an excuse I’m too tired or I have a headache and this went on and on till he stopped even trying which made me feel bad and I started to feel insecure but I thought oh well maybe he just has a lot on his mind and todays an off day but months have gone buy at this point and he has ent tried to initiate not once and it’s makes me feel bad because i wanted to have sex with him but i don’t know. Till I asked him and he said well I won’t burden you with my desires and I don’t know what to say I was sad insecure and upset and have I made him think it’s a burden what should I do?