So, I’m adopted. Which was probably quite obvious as soon as I got the results, but I guess I was in denial. My parents told me a couple of days ago, not much, but a bit. I know now that my mother was Danish, and my father’s old girlfriend from when he was really young, which is seriously weird. I asked them a lot of questions, but I didn’t get answers to all of them. I don’t know who my father is, how my parents were able to adopt me and why, if she’s even alive, nothing. But thankfully I am actually legally adopted by them, which is a relief, since I was worried I might not be. And my birthday is actually my birthday, so they haven’t been committing any weird fraud.
It’s very weird. My sister has been acting weirdly, and my family as well. But in some ways, it’s a relief. My parents still feel like my parents, and my siblings like my siblings. I know that technically they’re not, but I don’t feel too upset about it. I’m just upset they lied, and also won’t tell me everything. I don’t know if they genuinely don’t know, or don’t want to talk about it, but at least I have an idea about everything now. I’m still not quite sure how I feel about it, but I’m glad I know about things now. Plus now I have a country that’s actually good at football to support, which is nice.
Maybe some day I’ll find out everything, maybe not. I could probably look her up, and find her if I wanted to, but I’m not sure if I do, if she’s still alive. Although everything is different, it doesn’t feel so bad, but it does at the same time. It’s very weird. But I have a family that loves me, so it could be much worse. I feel sad about my twin, since we’re not actually related which feels really different and she’s acting different as well, but I still love her a lot, and my parents as well. I think it will take some time to know how I really feel. In some ways I want to be mad at everyone and do stupid things, but that’s only sometimes, and overall I feel okay so that’s good. And eventually I think I’ll be content with how everything is.
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