**TL;DR:** My boyfriend of four years, who has cheated on me multiple times, accused me of cheating and claimed to have found pictures of me that I supposedly sent to someone else. He refused to show me the proof and threatened to send it to my father. I know I didn’t cheat or send any pictures, and now we’re not speaking. I don’t know what to do next.
I (22F) want to share a situation that’s been troubling me. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, but our relationship has had its ups and downs. He’s cheated on me multiple times in the past, yet recently, he accused me of cheating.
One day, he called me out of the blue, clearly upset, and asked if I was hiding something from him. I told him I wasn’t. He insisted I was lying and said if I just confessed, he’d leave me alone. But I genuinely had no idea what he was talking about.
He claimed he found pictures of me from a video (his words were a bit unclear) that I supposedly sent to someone else. I told him I hadn’t done any such thing. When I asked for proof, he said he only wanted to send it to my father. It felt like a threat. I begged him not to involve my father, especially since I hadn’t done anything wrong and the pictures, if they existed, weren’t of me.
I asked him again for proof, any kind of background information because I know I’ve never sent anyone pictures during our relationship. He refused and kept threatening me. Eventually, I ignored him, and he sent voice memos saying I did it last summer. He was crying, saying he wanted to solve this and keep it between us. But his threats about involving my father said otherwise.
Now, we’re not speaking. I know I didn’t cheat or send pictures to anyone, but he’s still mad at me. I haven’t seen these alleged pictures because he wouldn’t send them to me, so I don’t even know if they exist. I’m lost and unsure of what to do next.