I’m [m25] dating with girl [f24] since January. We were all after toxic previous relationship. Mine relationship was one and a half year, her last more or less with breaks for five years.
We decided to move in together in after two months due to similar circumstances and problems with our apartments and everything was perfect. Our way of thinking, living is so compatible but after three months… She decided to move out and live alone because she didn’t process’s the previous relationship which she ended and need time and space for herself as told.
When I asked what about us in this situation because from my side it’s look sth is not okay once she said that love living with me and the way I treat her she is under a huge impression after she was treated in previous relation.
She want to continue dating and we will see what happens but I feel like moving out will move away us from each other. Honestly I don’t what to do like for the first time in my life, because it’s strange that when someone is so pleased about living with me and meanwhile need a “space”.
We had a lot of conversations a really honest ones so, no there is no one on the side, she decided that would be the best option for her to process that what happened because for this moment she don’t know what she feel and what shall she do.
I’m not looking for judging but I’m concerned if you had a similar situation when you was dating someone after long toxic relationship and it proceeded too fast that you need to take a breath.
TL;DR: it is normal to move out if we wanna still dating?