I feel I was pushed into the relationship by mutual friends of ours. She isn’t really my type physically. And with social media and girls I was talking to that were my type before it’s hard for me to be attracted to her (see below) and I’m constantly thinking I wish I would of dated this girl or kept talking this girl instead…
Physical attraction is super high up on my list. I want to be able to go out and or even little stuff like post her on my story and “show her off”. She used to work out everyday, put on make up, dress nice, etc. while in the talking stage she would go hang out with her friends all the time. now 2 years later she only wears sweatpants/sweatshirts/leggings. She has gained weight and is now insecure about her body. Only wants to do stuff with me or my friends, or just sits at home so I’m with her 100% of the time I’m off of work.
She is very supportive. She doesn’t care what I do or who it’s with. And has many other positive features.
Do I bring it up that I want her to start trying again?
How do I do that without being rude and her thinking she is ugly and get more insecure?
Or skip all that and save time with the possibility things don’t change and break up with her and try something new and potentially find a girl that’s more my type?