I (19 f) have been with my boyfriend (also 19) for a little bit now. I am his first time with a relationship and with anything following that. Kiss, dates, etc. I had collected his v card some time ago and have noticed that he struggles to reach his climax. At first I wrote it off as stage fright, but I think there’s more to it now.
He tries his best to try and reach his climax, but always reaches the same stage of not being able to. I have asked him questions about it, but I always get the same response, “I want to finish, but I can’t”. It’s almost as if he’s fighting himself to climax. Although whenever he does finish he seems more at ease which is nice, but it’s rare that he does.
I don’t want to assume that he doesn’t like it because it’s very clear in the moment he does, but I can’t help, but wonder if it’s underlying health issues or something else. It hasn’t caused us any issues during or out of intimacy, but it makes me wonder if anyone else has faced this issue.
TL;DR ** my boyfriend struggles during intimacy and it makes me wonder if it’s underlying health issues or something else. I’m wondering if anyone has advice on personal experiences or health advice for him.