I (19F) dating (19M) for 6 months.
I work as a stripper and also work as a hostess for a dinner. My partner basically runs a business for a trade. We have been dating for 6 months and the start of our relationship was great with great pleasure in the bed room basically every time we hung out. We now live together and is healthy apart from our sex lifes.
My partner used to be a Jehovah’s Witness before meeting me and stopped due to his ex cheating on him. It was only 6 months ago and found this out recently. We have discussed our sex lifes due to him knowing I’ve been bored in the bed room and he stated he is open to me teaching him new things etc. He knows he’s quite vanilla in the bedroom.
For the last month our sex life hasn’t been in bloom. He always says he’s too tired for it, which is understandable due to our shifts not being aligned and our energy levels differ. I work 1-4pm Monday-Thursday and 7pm-4am on the weekends.
Due to our sex lifes not being prominent, I’ve been super moody and loosing interest due to me having a high libido. And he has time to spend with me but he seems more interested in spending time with his roommate when we could be having some “fun”. I don’t want to bring this up to him as I don’t want him to feel pressured into it.
Tl:DR Does anyone have any tips for me?