We have a one year old and I just stopped nursing a couple of months ago. Took some time to dry up. I know nursing can drop your libido.
I’m also turning 30 soon. I know women peak around this age.
I’ve also been getting back into the gym this past month and I know with confidence and fitness comes drive.
It could be anyone or all of these things combined. We went from sex once or twice a week to every day and I’m using my toys throughout the day. I’m full on lustful. I can come and want to come again minutes later. It’s getting annoying to where I’m just obsessively thinking about sex. I’m not going to cheat but the desire for new excitement is there.
It’s getting to a point where my toys just aren’t enough. We’ve discussed open relationships and he’s okay with me being with a woman/having a girlfriend but not a guy. (I’m bi) so that’s cool but I’m terrified of STDS (got one a few years back) and I want proof of tests showing someone is clean and I can’t just find a woman and expect her to be exclusively fucking me.
Any clue how to tone this down? I want to stay faithful and respectful, and I need my temptations to die down 😂 I’m just horny 24/7