(Anecdotal specifically from me so your mileage may vary)
I seek serious relationship in the past —> only really get likes from casual, poly, couples, etc
I am upfront about how I’m largely emotionally unavailable after only being single now for a couple months —> every like I get is only here for serious, find my person, ready to settle down types
Maybe I just give off major “I can fix them” vibes nowadays idk 😂