My boyfriend (31M) and I (23F) were talking today and I can’t remember how this came up, but he said to me “sorry to tell you babe but blondes really do it for me” (I am brunette by the way).
He had told me a few days earlier that he liked petite women with smaller breasts (around a B cup), and myself being a Spanish woman I have rather large breasts (D cups, double the size he prefers) and an athletic and hourglass body.
I asked him today if he preferred these things in a woman why he was dating me (since I am the literal opposite of what he usually goes for) and he said it was because of my personality, and that he liked my body but that I’m the curviest he’s been with and that my breast size is the maximum he would be with.
I can’t help but feel really insecure about what he said. I don’t know why I feel this way, but how can I deal with these feelings I’m having?