Me and my girlfriend have been together 6 years. I am F24 she is F31. This is my first ever relationship and is the only person I’ve ever been with and had sex with. I don’t know if I have something wrong with me but no matter what she does I just cant orgasm like I can when I do myself. It also hurts when her fingers go in. I don’t know if I have a problem medically as I’ve not been able to have anything inside it hurts too much feels uncomfortable and I just can’t relax nor can I enjoy it, even doing it myself it hurts. I also tense up. I also have pcos but my dr said that does not cause pain in the opening of my vagina and inside the hole.
So I rub on her but she gets there before me and that’s it. Or she licks me out but I just can’t let go and enjoy it fully and even when I do or have something to help it just doesn’t work I don’t know if it’s just me or if it’s her, or my body. I’ve enjoyed and have been satisfied giving it to her which in our 6 year relationship I have done the most as I’d rather not let her finger me or use toys. It is affecting our relationship and I am frustrated. I don’t know what to do like why can’t I just enjoy sex. I love her and I’m sexually attracted to her she makes me wet you know like it’s not like she doesn’t do it for me because she does. I just don’t get it. Do I go to my doctors and explain or?