I (F20) have been talking to this guy (M22) for almost a year. we started talking on twitter and we grew a deep connection with each other.
for the past couple of weeks, I noticed his energy towards me has shifted.
he hasn’t called me for two weeks. we would always FaceTime on the weekends but that has changed
conversations have been vague and boring – when I initiate conversation he’ll respond with a few words.
he hasn’t complimented me in months. when in the beginning he would always used to
he doesn’t update me on what he’s doing, his snapscore has gone up significantly or he posts on his story while I’ve been on delivered for hours
he turns off and on his location, when a few months back he would always have it on for me
I haven’t done anything wrong and there’s no reason for him to be ignoring me. It hurts so much because I am so attached to him. I have a gut feeling that what we had is ending and he’s cutting me off. I just wish he could be mature enough and tell me what he wants. I don’t know what to do. I haven’t talked to him in hours. If and when he texts me back, should I ghost him back or confront him?
TLDR – I (F20) have been ghosted and don’t know what to do. I am attached to him (M22) but I don’t want to keep somebody around who has been ignoring me. I feel so hurt and don’t know what to do