(Sorry for the typos im on my phone). I 30f, and my husband 31m, have been highschool sweethearts. We are best friends and share everything. The past year, my husbsnd has gone on reddit and researched ways to make his (p***s), larger/more "girthy".
Now ive NEVER given him the impression that he was anything less than utterly beautiful and marvelous in every single way. But knowing my husband….he can be very compulsive as well as a bit obsessive when it comes to nee activities.
He found out everything he believes hes needed to research and follow and hes been religously doing these very long and extensive "procedures" on himself which ive seen turn his (p****s), dark purple and almost black tempirarily.
He bought all of these giznos online and it has actually worked! I personally wish hed stop doing it because I am only 5ft tall and he is 6'1. Hese larger than average already and its harder for me to enjoy him the way I used to….also I worried for his health! I have confronted him about it several times and he just laughs and waves me away and tells me "its fine", that "yeah, it looks scarey, but thats partbof the process and it will only last a few hours then go back to normal….
Im coming here for some advice to know if I should just let him keep doing this? Am I being freaked out for nothing? Should he be very concerned for his heath? Is thid jusy an online trend for men to do?
I love this man so very much….guys where do I go from here? This is not okayed by any doctor…to me this is reckless behaviour? For his sake, I know this post makes him sound crazy, but outside of this behaviour hes a compleyely chill and normal dude…he just gets soooo obsessive about new things and I honostly dont know how much hes in control of this situation. But men are different than woman…they think and feel different…thats why Im asking for insight? I worry its something I did but I cant think of anything.