A couple of days ago I found some gut wrenching news about how my boyfriend posted on his secret reddit account posting his nudes and has a sissy kink, posting his butt to other men (He is bisexual) and messaging them. How I found out was I had a feeling and went through his phone and he always hated when I got into his reddit and I was aware of the account — but he told me that he moved on from it and wanted to get serious with me – But when I checked I saw that he had recently posted this month after not posting for years and dming other people while sending pictures. I dont know what to do.. I feel so heartbroken… and I want to puke. I dont want to talk to my friends about this because we are in a group circle and he has always been so self-conscious of this side of him.. he keeps saying sorry and is begging me not to break up and that he will change and that he really loves me (IF HE LOVED ME WHY WOULD HE DO THIS???!?). I also have really bad daddy issues and how he is acting is reminding me of my father I dont know what to think – If i should move on or break up… Its just so hard because he met my family.. everyone loves him and accepts him and talks about him all the time. my mother is already talking about meeting up with him and having a picnic together as a family because I havent told her yet since I dont know what the status is. He is the first serious relationship i got into that lasted a year… Is it worth to give him a second chance? Sorry if my english is bad i was crying the whole time making this post lol. please give me any advice I cant think clearly at all and im so heartbroken.
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